孩子也有自尊心，而且對(duì)孩子自尊心的傷害有可能影響他的一生，我們是否注意了呢？

Harmful:Because I said so！

Beneficial:I know you want to play a little more,but we have to go to see grandma.

不要說：這是我說的，你要聽！

而是說：我當(dāng)然知道你想多玩會(huì)兒，不過，我們真的該去看看外婆哦~

Harmful:Stop crying.

Beneficial:I know how bad you feel.I'd be sad too.

不要說：把眼淚給我收回去！

而是說：我知道你很傷心，畢竟，我也很難過~

Harmful:If you don't eat your cereal,you'll stay weak and small.

Beneficial:If you eat your cereal,you'll be clever and strong like dad.

不要說：你要是吃不完飯，就會(huì)長得挫！

而是說：如果你好好吃飯，一定會(huì)像爸爸一樣聰明和強(qiáng)壯~

Harmful:You're doing it wrong.Give it to me!

Beneficial:Let me show you a neat trick to do it quickly.

不要說：你這么做錯(cuò)了！把它給我！

而是說：我有個(gè)小技巧，讓我來展示一下，如何搭得更快些吧~

Harmful:I see you're anxious.

Beneficial:Let's talk about it.

不要說：你怎么這么憂慮。

而是說：我們談?wù)勥@個(gè)問題吧~

Harmful:Let's get going.How long do I have to wait for you?

Beneficial:Race you to get dressed and ready!

不要說：趕緊出發(fā)！你到底還要讓我等你多久？

而是說：讓我們比賽看看誰先準(zhǔn)備好出門~

Harmful:Take it！Just stop crying!

Beneficial:I understand,but you know I can't allow it.

不要說：給你，不準(zhǔn)哭了！

而是說：我理解你的心情，不過，你也知道，我不能允許你這樣做~

Harmful:If you wash the dishes,I'll give you candy.

Beneficial:Remember when you washed the dishes the other day?You helped me so much!

不要說：你洗完了這些餐具，我就給你糖果吃！

而是說：你記得你那天幫我把餐具洗干凈了嗎？你簡直幫了我一個(gè)大忙呢~

Harmful:How do I know?

Beneficial:I don't know that yet,but I'll tell you when I find out.

不要說：你問我，我問誰去？！

而是說：我也不知道這個(gè)問題，不如，我找到答案后，和你分享？

Harmful:Stop watching TV.

Beneficial:Let's go and play a game!

不要說：不準(zhǔn)再看電視了！

而是說：一起去玩游戲吧？

Harmful:Look what you've done!

Beneficial:I know you didn't mean to,but be more careful next time.

不要說：看看你惹的禍！

而是說：我知道你本意不是像這樣，但是下次記得小心些~

Harmful:Look at Peter.He always come back home on time,unlike you.

Beneficial:Try to come back on time.It's very important.

不要說：看看人家小明，從來都是按時(shí)回家，哪像你？！

而是說：一定要盡量按時(shí)回家哦，這很重要呢~

善待、尊重每一個(gè)人！