1. Have a unique personality. Be your own person, but be different from the rest of the crowd. Have stories to tell and experiences to share. Be wild and exciting. Don't be bland and vague. Have that addictive personality. 有獨(dú)特的個(gè)性。做你自己，但要與眾不同。有故事要講，有經(jīng)驗(yàn)要分享。要狂野，要興奮。不要沉悶，不要含糊。有那種讓人上癮的個(gè)性。 2. Have a signature appearance and smell. I dress literally the same every day and smell the same every day, but it's apparently attractive. 有一個(gè)標(biāo)志性的外表和氣味。我?guī)缀趺刻於即┮粯拥囊路?，聞起來也是一樣的氣味，但這顯然更有吸引力。 3. Be motivational and inspiring. Use this to your best advantage. 激勵(lì)他人，鼓舞他人。充分利用這一點(diǎn)。 4. Humor. Make them genuinely laugh. I'm always making people smile and laugh, but for me, it comes naturally, without any deep thought. 幽默。讓他們發(fā)自內(nèi)心地笑。我總是讓人們微笑和大笑，但對(duì)我來說，它來得很自然，沒有任何深思熟慮。 5. Learn new skills. If you can pull off crazy magic tricks or dance good or sing or play an instrument, people are more likely to be drawn to you as well. People like people with skills, especially those that they lack. 學(xué)習(xí)新技能。如果你能表演一些厲害的魔術(shù)，或者跳舞、唱歌、演奏樂器，人們也更容易被你吸引。人們喜歡有技能的人，尤其是那些他們?nèi)狈Φ摹?/p> 6. Don't make it all about you. Talk to them about them. People love to talk about themselves, so open your ears, and be more than willing to give advice back as well. A simple answer to a long rant is not a way to win anything. Be willing to open up, listen, and talk it out. 不要讓一切話題都圍繞著你，和他們談?wù)勊麄冏约?。人們喜歡談?wù)撍麄冏约?，所以打開你的耳朵，也要給予一些反饋。一個(gè)簡單的回答并不能贏得任何東西。敞開心扉，傾聽，并說出自己的看法。 7. Learn their love language, but time spent with your loved one is the greatest and most powerful love language of all. 學(xué)習(xí)他們愛的語言，和你所愛的人一起度過的時(shí)間是所有愛的語言中最偉大和最強(qiáng)大的。 8. Have a good career ahead of you. Have plans. Have a job. Go to school or have an education. Have your own place. Have your own means of transportation. Believe me, those whom are mature will greatly appreciate this about you. 前途一片光明。有規(guī)劃，有工作。上過學(xué)或接受過教育。有自己的一片天地。有自己的交通工具。相信我，那些成熟的人會(huì)非常欣賞你的這一點(diǎn)。 9. Keep yourself well groomed. Oh and applying lip balm helps a lot. I mean, keeping those teeth nice and shiny and that breath minty fresh is a big step up too. 保持自己干凈整潔。哦，涂唇膏也很有幫助。我的意思是，保持牙齒的光澤和清新的口氣也是一大進(jìn)步。 10. Exercise, keep fit, eat good. This shows you want what you crave and that you're willing to get it despite the opposition in front of you. 運(yùn)動(dòng)，保持健康，好好吃飯。這表明你有渴望的東西，而且你愿意努力去得到它，盡管你面前有反對(duì)的聲音。
要特別，要優(yōu)秀，要傾聽。 Be special, be excellent, and listen. |
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